Monday, August 9, 2010

Ahlan wa Sahlan Ya Ramadhan. Ramadhan Mubarak, Ramadhan Kareem

In few days time we'll be fasting, InshaAllah.
May this Ramadhan bring goodness into us and better than last year.
Time past, time flies.
Many things had happened in my life.
But i always believe, things happened for reasons and meant to be.
And Allah knows best.

Thursday, February 18, 2010

Wedding invite ;)






Assalamualaikum wbt.

Dengan rasa rendah hatinya, saya ingin menjemput semua kawan-kawan sedari tadika ABIM, sekolah kebangsaan jitra, crossland moor junior school, sekolah kebangsaan sg. korok baru, temenggong ibrahim girls school, mrsm jasin, uitm shah alam, hospital seluruh malaysia, guru-guru, pensyarah-pensyarah dan semua yang mengenali ke Majlis Perkahwinan saya yang akan di adakan InshaAllah pada hari Sabtu, 13 Mac 2010 bertempat di Lot 1358, Kg. Pasir Tambun, Bandar Darulaman, 06000 Jitra, Kedah.

Semoga kehadiran dan doa kalian akan memeriahkan dan diberkati majlis kami ini.

Salam.




Friday, February 12, 2010

Self reflection

Salam.

In the Name of Allah, the Most Beneficent, the Most Merciful.

It has been for ages last i put something up here, and for a few minutes just now, i was searching for where
for me to click to put up a new post...

The year of 2010.

Many things had happened that changed my life may it for the better, or for the worst.

09.01.2010. Another year older that brings me another year closer to Almighty Allah. But what had I done to prepare myself to meet my Creator?? Work had consumed too much of my energy that left me too tired at the end of the day to do anything. All this while on my birthday, I'll spend some time to list down a few of my birthday resolutions but this year i hadn't done so apparently because of no time!!
..well this was just an excused! Too much time spend on least important things i.e. facebooking. Well this must not go on anymore. I have to limit myself. Yes, manar, you have to have respect for your own time!

There are also a few of my daily routines that i had neglected or abandoned?? since i started working...I had stopped journal writing (i consider this as a muhasabah diri), i had not been consistance in reciting the Quran everyday, i had not been improving my arabic language, i had stopped going for kuliahs and less and less time spent on reading! But one thing that had caught my attention recently, i had not been observing of my attire lately. These had to stop! A few things had happened to me that bring me back to life...Yes, i was too consumed with work and humanly love.And I'm thankful to Allah swt for not leaving me alone while i was astrayed.

Another big changes that had happened to me is that, I am engaged. InshaAllah, by Allah's will, Akad will be in 28 days time. Why had i choose to get married?? I wanted to be Nabi Muhammad's saw followers and to keep me safe, guard my modesty. The Messenger of Allah (pbuh) said, "O group of young people, whoever among you has the ability to marry, should get married. Certainly it helps in lowering the gaze and keeps the private part chaste. Whoever cannot get married should fast for it will be a protection for him" (Narrated by Muslim). As had been taught by our Prophet saw, when u have from two to choose, choose the one with religion, which may leave your life with dust, InshaAllah. Istikharah and be firm with it.

Getting married brings along with big responsibilities. Well, yes, this is a reminder for me. There will be challanges and obstacles, that's definitely but how one reacted to it, makes the difference. May Allah swt make ease, and place us among the believers, Ameen.

And there are alot more for me to learn to be a good wife and improve myself as a servant to my Creator, Almighty Allah. The purpose of my being here is to worship Allah swt, and Him alone.

No soul is burdened more than he could bear. Believe in Allah's words.

Salam.

Manar